If anyone ever tells you that you’re “too much”, “full of yourself”, or “high maintenance”….
Simply smile and say THANK YOU.
You've worked damn hard on yourself to get to the point where you finally know and believe you're freaking worth it and you won’t ever reject or let yourself down ever again.
At the end of your life you’re either going to be resting in peace, or you’ll be laying their haunted with regret knowing you could have done more with your life but you chose not to
Don’t let that be you.
I’d much rather be high maintenance than low maintenance.
I’d much rather invest in myself than discount myself.
I’d much rather believe in myself than reject myself.
I’d much rather be full of love than full of hate.
I’d much rather be full of faith than full of fear.
I’d much rather be healthy, and strong than overweight, obese and out of shape.
I’d rather keep going than quit.
I’d much rather be full of life instead of being full of shit pretending to be “good”.
Because not once has my higher self ever said “let yourself go”….
In fact, anytime I have slid backwards in my life, that calm voice of truth has always said…
You deserve better
Your family deserves better
You can do better
Make a change
Invest in yourself
You’re more than good enough.
Trust and believe in yourself.
Where people tend to get into trouble is they think they aren’t good enough, and they don’t think they are “worth it”, so they stop showing up for themselves and begin reject themselves.
Some don’t even begin the process of loving themselves because they are Sooooo “busy” doing “basic” things like buying more stuff they don’t like, unloading the dishwasher and folding laundry… and yet still can keep up with the basics.
At the end of the day, that still a choice.
Don’t ever let that be you, because last time I checked being a “hot mess” never looked or felt good.
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